Any size of group can be compared to a small village. May it be a company, or a team, or a set of friends. In a village, whom you like or dislike, matters a lot, as you have to interact with everyone.
Our language is limited to a set of words, but our feelings are boundless. While expressing the ideas, we are trying to compress the infinite to fit into a bottleneck of vocabulary.
While receiving worded-bounded-ideas, we are decompressing those to our own infinite universe.
“We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.” ― Anaïs Nin.
And, there is no perfect transformation, and there can not be one.
What matters here is giving people a chance to express themselves, whether or not you like the person.
Things tend to improve, if someone is working on de-escalating the conflicts.
“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.” ― Harper Lee.