feat: introduce update-ipinstance-status for daemon

[hhyasdf]

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So we can make daemon donot update status for ipinstance. And remove status.phase field for IPInstance, which is useless.

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Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 41.37%. Comparing base (02d9652) to head (9d724ae).
Report is 23 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/controllers/networking/pod_controller.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[mars1024]

/lgtm