Port to scikit-build-core #839

Job	Run time
Test install with generated cython files	3m 16s
Test sse2 code on Linux (gcc)	6m 15s
Test installation using newest version of Taskflow	3m 0s
Test installation using system supplied libs	2m 59s
Python 3.9	5m 20s
Python 3.9	8m 37s
Python 3.9	5m 4s
Python 3.10	4m 49s
Python 3.10	8m 33s
Python 3.10	5m 42s
Python 3.11	4m 41s
Python 3.11	9m 11s
Python 3.11	5m 56s
Python 3.12	4m 58s
Python 3.12	8m 11s
Python 3.12	5m 20s
Python 3.13	5m 44s
Python 3.13	9m 24s
Python 3.13	6m 18s
	1h 53m 18s

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