fix: useComposeRef memo logic

[zombieJ]

useComposeRef 的 memo 逻辑写反了，导致用了它总是会重新刷新 ref。

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Codecov Report

Merging #458 (e8bea14) into master (2ced0b2) will increase coverage by 0.11%.
Report is 2 commits behind head on master.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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+ Coverage   91.49%   91.60%   +0.11%     
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  Files          38       38              
  Lines         905      905              
  Branches      274      289      +15     
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+ Hits          828      829       +1     
+ Misses         75       74       -1     
  Partials        2        2              

Files Changed	Coverage Δ
src/Dom/shadow.ts	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
src/ref.ts	100.00% <100.00%> (+3.70%)	⬆️

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